Which one will you choose, if you have to choose with no turning around, between these two choices:
The right one in the wrong time, Or the wrong one in the right time?
Time’s a bitch, people said. Some things that should be wonderful in the past, when it occurred again in the future, might seem to be a blah, or awful somehow.
Some people that you begged for in time’s needed, now might seem to interfere your life too much, or might be accompany by others which, as miserable as it might sound, is not you and it sucks.
Time is NOT the main villain here, in my opinion.
Human did. We change as time goes by, time’s just relatively moving along side our lifetime pan.
Maybe in the past, those wonderful things that you WISH to happen to you, only satisfy you temporarily when those things are the only things matter in that period of time. Appearance, style, score test, those things might be your whole world in your teen age to earn respectable social status, but as you grew, is it still as important?
Or you grew to notice that, the actual social environment you need, does not even care about your perfected appearance, your quirky style, your ups-and-down score test. They need reality.
Same as people. Back in the days, maybe those certain people are a no-go for you.
They lack of this, they don’t go along with you, they are beyond you, and so many other reasons that set you apart with certain someone. But as the world rolling, are you really needing those capabilities you’ve been criticizing them all along?
Or you actually need them, just to balance out your life, as you now recognize that nothing’s perfect, nothing’s immaculate, nothing will ever going as you plan.
And this moment, this very moment, when you realize that those things are what you need, or you don’t care less, the ticking time will be your worst enemy, or as we may say, a bitch.
What if, when you realize that you need something, or someone, or some spare time, those things already belong to someone else, or even don’t want to be related any further with you?
What if those things are already broken to pieces, without you have any clue whatsoever how to turn it right what it started?
What if, everything else’s perfect, except timing?
Would you consider to let your ego take over, fight for what you believe fits you right, without considering others who get hurt, or left behind?
Or you stick to what YOUR heart told you, that nothing’s good ever come up to those who hurt others?
That good things always wait, always patient, until time finally turn around and finally recognize you, and choose you over everything else.